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      Remembering Indiphile Rasmeni: A Life Taken Too Soon

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      On 25 January 2026, Mbobo Village in the Palmietfontein area woke up to a horror no community should ever have to face.

      Indiphile Rasmeni, an 18-year-old young woman, was brutally murdered, allegedly at the hands of her boyfriend. What should have been a place of rest and safety became a crime scene. A young life was extinguished in a manner that reflects the brutal reality of gender-based violence and femicide in South Africa.

      According to the South African Police Service, a neighbour noticed a house on fire in the early hours of the morning and alerted both community members and police. When officers arrived, they found Indiphile lying on her bed, covered with clothes, blankets, and books.

      Initial investigations revealed that she had sustained four stab wounds to her throat. The attempt to destroy evidence through fire speaks not only to violence, but to deliberate cruelty.

      Indiphile Rasmeni was a learner in the Palmietfontein area. She was living with her cousin. She was last seen with her boyfriend. She was 18 years old — someone’s child, someone’s family, someone whose future has now been violently erased.

      The Joe Gqabi District Commissioner, Major General Lindelwa Vellem, has correctly described this murder as a tragic reminder of the scourge of Gender-Based Violence and Femicide that continues to devastate families and communities across the country. That this crime occurred within an intimate relationship makes it even more painful. Intimate spaces are meant to be defined by care, trust, and protection, yet they remain among the most dangerous places for women and girls.

      This case also exposes a dangerous myth we still carry as a society: that gender-based violence is a distant problem, more common in urban centres than in rural villages. Mbobo Village reminds us that violence exists everywhere. Rural communities are not immune; in many cases, they are more vulnerable.

      In marginalised rural areas, inequality has deepened over the years. Poverty remains persistent. Mental health support is scarce or absent. Alcohol and substance abuse continue to rise, especially among young people facing unemployment and social neglect. When these conditions exist alongside weak accountability, violence becomes normalised.

      What is rarely acknowledged is how violence in rural communities is often minimised. Gender-based violence is too frequently treated as a “family matter” or a cultural issue rather than a serious crime. Survivors are discouraged from reporting. Police responses are sometimes dismissive or delayed. Cases are resolved informally, if at all. When the law repeatedly fails victims, perpetrators learn that there are no real consequences.

      I have witnessed this failure firsthand. Women who report rape are advised to forgive their attackers. Violations of protection orders are ignored. Threats to life are not taken seriously. These experiences create an environment where perpetrators become bold, confident that the system will not stop them.

      The SAPS has indicated that a case of murder has been opened and that a thorough investigation is underway. Justice must be swift, transparent, and visible. But justice cannot end with one arrest or one investigation. If we are serious about ending GBVF, we must confront the systems that allow it to continue — poor policing, social silence, lack of prevention, and the continued exclusion of women’s voices from decision-making spaces.

      Mbobo Village is grieving. Indiphile Rasmeni’s family has been shattered. A future has been stolen.

      This moment demands more than condolences. It demands accountability, prevention, and a collective refusal to accept violence as normal. Gender-based violence is not cultural. It is not private. It is not inevitable. It is a crime — and it must be treated as such, everywhere.

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